Da STAYA or Da PLAYA

hmm... STAYA vs PLAYA....

this sounds like some political post... But it ain't!!!

After much discussion over this topic, a phenomenon noticed of some individuals in their love life spurred me to write this post and let readers of this blog have a thought over the topic.

Da Scenario:
A relationship, which was nothing short of loving, between a gal and a guy lasted for a short while(say a year or so). Then guy told his kakis(close friends).... I dun think she is the "one"! So he deliberated over a period of time while he totally isn't too nice to her.

At long last he initiated the break up that he most wanted.
Guy told his kakis then, he really needed and deserved someone better and felt that she was not pleasant looking enough. (Well i guess it's good enough a reason, eh??)

Life went on normal and the guy had a very serious "Like"on a gal who seem to be a PLAYA!
He was totally head over heels and had totally changed his living habits and lifestyle suiting the gal (Well, this is not much of a problem as long as the guy can fit in and it in turn is rewarding for the sacrifice of change). He did not however go with the gal as she was seeing someone else. But as the 2 were on very close terms it was almost a "good to go".

"As all good things come to an end"as Wet Wet Wet sings, the good times didn't last as it was obvious the PLAYA had no intention to take it too far.

So guy went through a shitty-patch of depressing thoughts and moodiness and slowly recovered. Then out of nowhere, he decides to go back together with his ex (DA STAYA). Guy's kakis seem perturbed and perplexed with the whole thing, and asked him why he did that when it seem love was all lost back then.

Shockingly, the answer (from a close confidante) was that the guy felt that the ex gf had always been there for him (even through the breakup and the PLAYA period, and he knew her love for him is true, lasting and that nothing could change her mind on him. As for him, he went back with her to "go with the flow" and that he felt that his parents would definitely approve of her. It was pretty obvious that Guy's feelings for Ex could not really be defined as true love.




Now, the question is , Guy in Da Scenario, has he done right?
Is it justifiable to go back wif an ex when the true reason is not a revelation of your love for a person is real? but more so cause it seem logical to "go with the flow?"

Is it justifiable also, to get back with someone whom love is lost just cause that person treats you really nice and have been a "STAYA" through your shittiest days? If it is so, wouldn't a person be falling in love with "Niceness"?

Ok OK, too long a post.... let's take it from here and draw your own conclusions...give a comment, write something on the tagboard...

Da Scenario is PURELY written on a hypothetical basis and any coincidences with any persons alive or dead is purely unintentional.