Da Con-Science

English Words... how funny it can get!

Jason MRaz's "You and I Both" lyrics rang and rang when u think about WORDs.... "I'm all about them words,Over numbers, unencumbered numbered words..."

So wat about CONSCIENCE?

As www.dictionary.com defines it:

The awareness of a moral or ethical aspect to one's conduct together with the urge to prefer right over wrong

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Why am i talking about this in my blog?Well,here's what happenned:

Mr Weix had actually asked me if its ethically correct to talk about the STAYA/PLAYA so openly when it actually is in close resemblance to a friend's experience.

"eh, where's your conscience??" he asked...

Well, conscience as defined, it is subjective to the point that it is oneself's awareness of ethical behaviour and as what Mr Weix has pointed, I feel that I am compelled by Conscience to expose someone but with subtle touches. So where's the wrong in that? A little less PC it may seem, but it is with good intentions and good ethical behaviour to "wake a friend" and to also remind ourselves that being truthful to oneself is key to living without emotional stress

Tooo philo liaoz...

Ok back to joking... after all it's the COURT JESTER who is writing here.

Conscience... English....
CON-SCIENCE.... The Science of CONNING people... Weird EH!!!... English... Weird English....HA

Da BOring DINNER/ Wonderful?

bac bac bac....

Was hoping to see some ppl get drunk like they usually do at my Counselling Group (Workplace SUB UNIT) dinner....
MR A the last joke at the dinner, was once again the likely target but this time ard, he didn't get drunk lah...

BORING.. but ok lah the food made up for it..

MR T showed me the cheater way to get free parking at MARina Square b4 the dinner and it was quite a revelation. However, the "humpchee" in me tells me i should never never try this...

Lets do a recap on wat MR T did.

HE drove like an irritating pest following up some poor victim's car up the ramp towards the exit gantry. Gantry lifted, and the car went forward and he stuck like a "sticky bomb" up the front car's ASS and made it out of the carpark without paying a single cent... AMAZING!!!!....

Tomorrow it's softball day...PwC finally straighten up and decided to org softball game for CPA games... ha.. and i hope i still know how to play.. and it's 3 am in the morning and i m doing up this post.... KAOz...

Well.. tonite's different, i visited PAUL, my best pal who just got married, and once again i find myself back in that familiar feeling.With "Wonderful" by Everclear blasting in my SONY Headphones, its like the VOICEOVERS in the song is coaxing me, "Isn't everything wonderful now?"... when it ain't? hahaha... envy leh.... how come ppl meet their partners and get settled? HA it's just that feeling tonite lah!

Hopefully, everything's going to be wonderful someday... A good JOB, a good life, a settled life with a lifepartner, and better quality of life,time for my own stuff, time for mum and my dog, time for God, time for frens... Distant huh? it will happen lah.. someday but not tonite, not wif a boring DINNER lah.. SOFTBALL Can't wait for it!!!......

Da STAYA or Da PLAYA

hmm... STAYA vs PLAYA....

this sounds like some political post... But it ain't!!!

After much discussion over this topic, a phenomenon noticed of some individuals in their love life spurred me to write this post and let readers of this blog have a thought over the topic.

Da Scenario:
A relationship, which was nothing short of loving, between a gal and a guy lasted for a short while(say a year or so). Then guy told his kakis(close friends).... I dun think she is the "one"! So he deliberated over a period of time while he totally isn't too nice to her.

At long last he initiated the break up that he most wanted.
Guy told his kakis then, he really needed and deserved someone better and felt that she was not pleasant looking enough. (Well i guess it's good enough a reason, eh??)

Life went on normal and the guy had a very serious "Like"on a gal who seem to be a PLAYA!
He was totally head over heels and had totally changed his living habits and lifestyle suiting the gal (Well, this is not much of a problem as long as the guy can fit in and it in turn is rewarding for the sacrifice of change). He did not however go with the gal as she was seeing someone else. But as the 2 were on very close terms it was almost a "good to go".

"As all good things come to an end"as Wet Wet Wet sings, the good times didn't last as it was obvious the PLAYA had no intention to take it too far.

So guy went through a shitty-patch of depressing thoughts and moodiness and slowly recovered. Then out of nowhere, he decides to go back together with his ex (DA STAYA). Guy's kakis seem perturbed and perplexed with the whole thing, and asked him why he did that when it seem love was all lost back then.

Shockingly, the answer (from a close confidante) was that the guy felt that the ex gf had always been there for him (even through the breakup and the PLAYA period, and he knew her love for him is true, lasting and that nothing could change her mind on him. As for him, he went back with her to "go with the flow" and that he felt that his parents would definitely approve of her. It was pretty obvious that Guy's feelings for Ex could not really be defined as true love.




Now, the question is , Guy in Da Scenario, has he done right?
Is it justifiable to go back wif an ex when the true reason is not a revelation of your love for a person is real? but more so cause it seem logical to "go with the flow?"

Is it justifiable also, to get back with someone whom love is lost just cause that person treats you really nice and have been a "STAYA" through your shittiest days? If it is so, wouldn't a person be falling in love with "Niceness"?

Ok OK, too long a post.... let's take it from here and draw your own conclusions...give a comment, write something on the tagboard...

Da Scenario is PURELY written on a hypothetical basis and any coincidences with any persons alive or dead is purely unintentional.

Da ORRR BAK KAK

as da shitty title suggest... our common friend and FOE ... the WC....

Haiz...in the short half time interval of our jiam tao(french loaf)inventors and the suppliers of our TAGGIES and FRANCK MULLER....which is quite boring... this blog post is done...

What about???the blardy ORRR BAK KAK lah... What caused it???
U jolly well know the answer..

1. Its our turn to turn zombies(since in 2002, we had LAH KOPI (skiving somewhere)sessions to watch the game..)
2. Why is there still so much work and i can't go on leave?
3. My best friends wedding is this weekend and we are putting some hrs to help sort out stuffs....

and now ..its barely in to the 4th group and i am already complaining.

Imagine come july when the finals go .... i will most probably be scrawny and totally ORR BAK KAK.....Some say.. "aiyah dun watch lah!".

"But, bbbbutttt.... i paid $10.50 leh... my hard earned $10.50!!!!"

The illogical thing to do too.. to pay money to get ORRR BAK KAK.. hahaha...

Its an irony...WC and Soccer itself....u love it ... u hate it..
HELP ME .... wat to do, wat to do??? waste my $10.50 or make myself totally wasted???

DA RIMS....

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My 1st big MOD since 2004(after ICE- In-Car Entertainment Mod).

SIGH.. a poor guy like me can afford only REPLICA RIMs...
and to think it took 2 yrs in the planning to finally get down to doing it after surveying and much deliberation.

Here's 2 pics of it anyways for ppl who are interested:




Watch this Space for more MODS by Johnny in the future.

the F/UP... Follow UP lah U SHITS!

hi ppl...
after the HIATUS over a month plus, its time to pen some thoughts....

F/UP as the online schedule(called RETAIN at my work place) shows actually means FOLLOW UP and not FUCKED UP as most ppl would affectionately know it.

So is there a follow up to my life? I guess there is a follow up somehow from where i have seemed to throw things(in my life) to pieces and not expect a proper follow up to wrap up(as all audits eventually do).

Follow closely ppl... HA...